Step-by-step guide to
Choosing an engagement ring
In this guide, we explain in a comprehensive way what to consider when choosing an engagement ring. From beginning to end, we take you through the most essential steps. We also touch on points regarding diamond selection, which is nevertheless common in an engagement ring. Furthermore, we divide the guide into two parts, adapted to how you choose to propose. We at VANBRUUN hope to answer your questions and concerns. If not, you are always welcome to contact our jewelry experts.
Time
We suggest good planning with delivery time in mind. If time is short, there is the option to add express delivery at checkout with us at VANBRUUN. Choose express service for faster delivery or deadline service for delivery on a desired date.
Budget
The first thing we recommend is to set a budget. That is, how much you are willing to spend on the ring and diamond. Something to consider is the traditional rule of thumb that recommends spending three month’s salary on an engagement ring.
Ring size
Depending on whether the engagement is meant to be a surprise or not, there are different ways to find out your partner's ring size. One way is to order sizing bands. Be aware that it may be not be as discreet, even if you find out the exact size. Another option is to send a picture of your partner’s hand to us. That way, our experts can assess what size might be the right one. If the size is wrong after all, do not despair. We offer free resizing.
The ring and diamond
When choosing a ring and diamond, our advice is to start with your personal preferences and style. With us, you can choose a standard ring or design your own. A good idea is to think about which wedding ring you want at this stage. This way, you know in advance whether the engagement ring will work well with it or not.
Here is a picture of a combination of our popular engagement ring Celeste and eternity ring Louise.
Another aspect to consider is what you work with and what fits your daily life. For example, a ring with a high setting is not an optimal choice if you work a lot with your hands. The reason for this is that the ring risks unnecessary wear and tear. After that, decide which metal you want; white gold, rose gold, or platinum.
When the ring is chosen, you continue to decide whether you want a lab-grown or natural diamond. Then you determine the diamond shape and carat weight. Here, we want to point out that the carat weight is not the same as the size of the diamond. Carat weight is what the diamond itself weighs. If you want maximum sparkle, the diamond cut is more important than the carat weight. This is because a larger carat weight with poor cutting can make the diamond appear smaller. Also, keep in mind that a diamond can look different on different people. In the same way, a perfume smells different depending on who wears it.
Before we continue, we will now divide the post into two parts. One part concerns a surprise proposal and the other, a planned proposal.
Surprise proposal
With us, you have the opportunity to borrow a ring to propose with. You order a mock-up ring, that is identical to our product range. After the proposal you decide the official ring, you want to wear. Do you want some inspiration to create a memorable moment? Read our article - 5 ways to propose.
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Planned proposal
You can borrow up to three rings to try at home at your own pace. If you still feel unsure and wish to get guidance in your choice, meet our jewelry experts by booking:
Virtual consultation
Showroom
Private bookings
After the engagement
We congratulate you on your engagement and wish you all the happiness. Take care of each other and your love, but also remember to take care of your rings. Read more about how to take care of your rings here.
